Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.

I will never look at You with anything less than love, grace and respect. No matter the day, no matter the state of mind. I can be mad at something, sometimes even You, yet I still feel nothing less. Not now, not ever.

Isn't it funny how some feelings change like a heeler - at one point you think that this is all you want. This is all you need. And then it flips. Suddenly everything becomes clear. The person you shared your life with, was never more than just a man... just a woman... A wise man from India -OSHO- once said that love against another person is pretty much comparable to flowers. He said: “If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.” 

See, this is what people tend to forget. The true meaning of love. What it means to give your love to someone. It is not about enchaining the other person to "settle down" with you. It is about setting them free to live their life and to feel loved. And I do mean loved, not possessed. Don't mix them up! Love shouldn't mean to stay calm and spend the rest of your life with one person. Sure, you can share some special things with one person for the rest of your life, but everything else should be supported by the love, encouraged by the love and not forced by the love. 

And don't be so attached to one specific person. I'm sure everybody thinks in their current relationship that he is the person you are going to love forever. The only one. False! You probably already know that you have loved before... "But this one really feels  right..." Don't worry, the next one will feel even better. That's the magical mind game your heart and brain are playing because they can't figure out their own rules. Let's continue with OSHO - a man who might have figured out the Love. "Love makes no conditions, no ifs, no buts. Love never says, "Fulfill these requirements, then I will love you. "Love is like breathing: when it happens you are simply love. It does not matter who comes close to you, the sinner or the saint. Whosoever comes close to you starts feeling the vibe of love, is rejoiced. Love is unconditional giving – but only those are capable of giving who have" (OSHO,  The Guest). You can't control who you fall in love with. All you can control is how are you going to use the love you have to share...

So I will probably look at everybody differently is some amount of time.. because I change. The World changes. You change. Life wouldn't be life if it didn't change at all. It would be a moment. A moment only stays for a moment and then changes when life takes over. This is the way it goes. Expect nothing, experience everything, live in the moment. Be the moment!